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Working at home…sometimes it’s hard to figure out how you will be getting it all done.

Supermoms -we’ve all met other moms who seem to have it all together.  Do you ever wonder how they do it?  Well, the trick isn’t a trick… they just do it.  How is another question.  It always seems that we can never get caught up, and things just get piled up, despite our best intentions.  The key is to get organized and develop new good habits.

Changing habits won’t happen overnight.

It’s a gradual process and takes time.  So, first you need to organize your time, but once you are organized you will save a lot of time in the long run.  Plan to tackle one thing at a time. Don’t try to do it all at once, because you’ll get overwhelmed and give up.  Start with the easiest job, so you have a sense of accomplishment that will roll over to the next project.  Once things are organized, set up daily maintenance for each area of the house.

Start with clutter.

 Get rid of things that have been piling up, like junk mail, paper and other things you just don’t need.  Then take a look at each room and see what belongs and what doesn’t. If it doesn’t belong in that room, put it in a box to be sorted and placed in the right place later.  You can even have a box for each person in the family and put things in it from each room as you go through the house. Then they can put all their things away.

Many of us have clothes and toys that haven’t seen the light of day in ages, so by going through them and either having a garage sale or giving them to charity, you can cut back on the amount of stuff that needs done.  The less you have to put away, the more time you have to spend on fun things.

Organize your shopping trips. 

Making a shopping list is a start, and many people forget to make one.  They either come out with a lot more things than they wanted, thus blowing the budget, or forget one important item and have to go back again later, wasting time.  Many people have even started using a grocery store’s website to pre-order their groceries and some even offer a delivery service. 

Another great way to help save time is to cook meals ahead of time.

There are many recipe books that are designed for freezer meals. You cook several meals at once, freezing them to be reheated later.  This saves time and if you buy the ingredients in bulk, can save you a lot of money. Slow cookers are also a great way to help save time. You throw the ingredients in earlier in the day, let it cook all day and then dinner is ready with very little work.
 
Dividing up the housework is another way to help get everything done.

Even young children can help do some things, with guidance.  The earlier they learn to help, the easier it will be later.  Make a chores chart and remind everyone that this will help make time for the family to do the fun things they want to do. 

It may seem daunting at first, but just like anything worthwhile, it will take time to reorganize your house into a smooth running home that everyone can enjoy.

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It’s easy to work all the time when you are working at home. 

5 Tips About Working Moms and Stress

More and more mothers are returning to the workforce when their kids come of school age.  Some moms never stopped working and have had to learn to juggle home and career.  Here are some tips to help working moms to lighten the stress load.

Working moms are those mothers that work outside the home and inside the home.  While working moms outside the home may work more hours than the moms that work inside the home, the home-working moms must divide their time between care for the children and their clients.  For both, these two worlds provide pressures that can lead to a stressful life.

Working moms have the social interaction that comes with a job in the workplace.  They talk with other adults and get away from home for a few hours a day.  While work does offer the adult interaction they need, it also introduces a new stress-or into the mix. 

Work-at-home moms are struggling to find their identity at the same time that they are raising the kids.  The spouse still works outside of the home which means that most of the household needs are met by mom as she juggles her business.  The new business, while bringing fulfillment, can be another source of stress.

For both types of moms, one tip for stress relief is to exercise.  Exercise prepares the body for anything, including attacks from stress.  Mornings are usually best for moms because they can get their physical activity out of the way.  Mom can also exercise with their kids.  Put the baby in a stroller and walk or jog around the neighborhood.  Play games with the kids to work up a sweat.

Enlist the help of other family members.  Spouses and older kids are not mind readers.  If you want help with the chores, ask for it.  Give the kids a list of chores to do.  Make a chart and tape it to the refrigerator if you need to.  Ask your spouse to watch the kids for a few hours when he gets home so that you can have time to yourself. 

Hire out for certain jobs.  Have a maid service come in and clean for you.  It may only be once or twice a month, but any time at all is a big weight off your shoulders.  Hire a neighborhood kid to cut the lawn. 

On the days when your business workload is heaviest, why not use a mom’s helper.  She will occupy the kids while you conduct meetings, run errands, and do other business related things.  The person you hire should be someone you trust who is good with kids.

Leave work at work or in the home office.  Whatever pressures you have with clients or coworkers, decide to deal with it during work hours.  Dragging this baggage into your home life does nothing good for you or your family.  Worrying all night when the problem will still exist the next day is futile.

Return to work on a part-time basis.  Working full time may be stressing you too much.  The financial side may take a slight hit, but you will make up for it with peace of mind.  Talk to your spouse and share your concerns before making a decision together.

Working moms have added stress from their jobs, whether they work at home or in a work environment.  Easing that stress is crucial to keeping the family life in harmony.

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Finding inspiration to work at home isn’t always easy. Some days…are one of those days.

Everything is just all wrong from the moment you wake up. The house is a mess. The kids are cranky. You feel one step behind. You didn’t get a good night’s sleep. You have to go to your day job and the last thing you want to do is more work at night.

It just seems easier to do nothing. Make no progress towards your dream of running a successful business from home. Oh, I’d rather read instead or maybe I’ll make some cookies.

My favorite little tip is to set the timer( on the stove, on the microwave, on your cell phone) and start surfing for inspiration to work at home today. Usually it only takes 15 or 20 minutes to inspire me to do one more business task today.

I think we underestimate the power of doing one more thing each day. In the moment, it seems like it doesn’t matter. But, what does a month look like if you stretched yourself and did one more small thing than you felt like doing each and every day? How about after a year?

That’s why it’s important to continue to find the inspiration to work at home. Keep going. Keep at it.

Momentum is everything. If you skip one day…one day turns into two days…then it turns into a week.

How many weeks have you not been working your business? Where is that getting you?

So, here’s a few places I’ve been lately looking for inspiration. Enjoy!

Craft Boom

Handmade for Profit

Handmaiden

The Artful Crafter

Victoria Klein

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There are several reasons why holding home parties make a fabulous opportunity. 

There is very little risk and cost involved in holding a home party. It’s extremely unlikely that you would not sell a thing if you’ve targeted the right hostess for your parties. What’s the worst that can happen? You gave a gift to a person who loves your product line, you’ve added people to your mailing list and had a few hours out.

Home parties can be very profitable. Rather than talking with one customer at a time, you can talk with a whole group. You can survey them and learn what they like. Take note of the questions they ask and that may lead to the development of more products.

Most guests who attend are interested in what you’re selling. They would have stayed home otherwise. As long as you stay relaxed, they’ll be relaxed.

In online shops or at craft fairs potential customers may bounce around without purchasing. With no other business competing for their money, you’ll likely have better sales.

You can do as many parties as you feel like and you can change up the theme each time as well as change with the seasons. Also, because your potential customers are face-to-face with you, it’s easier to solicit higher end special orders.

Working at home and selling your crafts is a great perk but it does have disadvantages as well. Many people may not view you as holding down a real job. They may be rude, disrespectful, and just plain difficult to deal with.

If your parties become really popular, you may be working a lot of the time. Especially if you product is more on the  time-consuming side to produce. You’ll need to make more products to stock up for your parties.

Most parties tend to take place in the evening. But you can get out of that trend by actively seeking out a few people to hold parties during brunch or lunch. Those ’seed’ parties will begin to set the expectation of when your type of party takes place. Before you know it, you could have a day job instead of constant nights out.

Bookings for home parties can vary greatly from season to season. Try to find ways to make your product match what holidays are coming up. The better you can do this, the more steady your sales can be year-round.

In the end, a few home parties can help build your mailing list and repeat customers. Selling your crafts is easier with repeat customers to market to.

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Getting you husband to help with housework is important when you are working on your business start-up. The hardest part of working on a new business is not burning yourself out. It’s easy to feel like you should just give in if you feel like you are solely responsible for all family chores and obligations, working a full time job, and trying to fit in business around meals and in the wee hours of the morning. Momentum and focus during key business building moments can propel your business, but something has to give. You’ll need to figure out how to get some help.

Since the beginning of time, husbands have been viewed as the hunters and wives as the gatherers. According to statistics, only 15% of husbands today help with housework. Although we may not have fully evolved into an equal partnership when it comes to the home, and while there is still an on-going debate as to how to encourage husbands to help around the house, here are 5 tips for getting your husband to help with housework that may work for you. more…